FRESH EPISODE: The highs and lows of being a Sandwich Generation parent.

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Nov. 1, 2023

Exercise: are teens doing enough, and what can we do to encourage them?

61: Nobody would argue against the benefits of exercise, but there are lots of school kids who dread physical education lessons, and dodge exercise whenever it's raised. When Nicola contacted us asking for advice on how to ge...

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Oct. 25, 2023

60: ‘Trans’ and gender confusion: what to say to teens when we’re often more confused than they are. An interview with expert psychotherapist Stella O'Malley.

The words non-binary, queer, trans, are regularly used in social media and the news nowadays. Many teens are far more educated on their significance than us parents; in fact many of us would be completely unprepared over how ...

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Oct. 18, 2023

59: Triggers and emotional spirals, also mobile phone bans and do schools know what to teach kids anymore?

In most episodes Rachel uses her journalistic background to trawl through studies and find out what a range of experts think about a topic. Susie brings her wealth of knowledge and experience of mindfulness and parenting to t...

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Oct. 11, 2023

Divorce: Marriage problems; how to talk to a teenager about what’s happening.

58: Deciding to split can be an incredibly challenging time for any married couple, but knowing the impact it can have on our kids can make it even harder to navigate the complex untangling of a life together. We were asked b...

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Oct. 4, 2023

Dating: Talking to teens about dating and relationships or 'help, my son's come home with a hickey!'

57: Stacy messaged to tell us that her son had come home with a hickey for a second time, and she wasn't sure whether her reaction was the right one. My goodness, parenting can be hard. Remember when you had your very first d...

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Sept. 27, 2023

Emotional intelligence and how we can help ourselves, and our teens to develop it.

56: Everybody knows intelligence is important, but until the 90's we relied on the testing of IQ to measure it. The problem was that IQ didn't really predict success. When the term emotional intelligence began being used it b...

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Sept. 20, 2023

Gap years: What is a gap year and should our teens take one?

55: I'd never heard of a Gap Year until I took one, but it was life-changing; in a good way. Whether your teen is starting out at senior school, or about to hit a transition year, it's worth talking with them about whether ta...

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Sept. 13, 2023

Illness: Talking about cancer and death: Most of us are terrible at talking about it, so how can we support our teens?

57: Parenting tweens and teens is challenging enough, but when someone in the family becomes seriously ill or dies, it can feel overwhelmingly difficult. In all honesty, we Westerners are terrible at talking about death, ofte...

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Aug. 30, 2023

Anxiety: How to help your teen with anxiety, an interview with Renee Mill, Senior Clinical Psychologist.

53: For most of our episodes I research a topic and discuss it with Susie. We covered anxiety some time ago in that format, and it's continued to be one of our most popular downloads. So, when I was given the opportunity to i...

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Aug. 23, 2023

52: Christmas and holiday stress with teenagers and tweens.

A holiday is when someone is free to do what they want, such as travel or relax. That's according to the Cambridge Dictionary. The problem with teenagers, is that what they want to do for several weeks over summer - such as s...

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Aug. 16, 2023

51: Transitioning to secondary school: What we wish we'd known about preparing our tweens & teens, and ourselves.

The transition from junior to senior school can be thrilling; the chance to meet a much bigger group of kids, and gain more of the independence that's part of growing up. But change is always stressful, and when you combine a...

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Aug. 10, 2023

Memory helps us do far more than pass exams. So why not train it in the same way we work our muscles in the gym?

50: In this interview with Danielle Winton of Memory Strategy we talked about: * Why we should care about memory stategies. * Key things parents can do to support their teens. * How to link a number to music. * Everyone can p...

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July 24, 2023

Snapchat addiction; the app that's a fantastic way to connect, or a cynical exploitation of your teenager's time?

49: Snapchat has become a must-have for most teens, because it's now the way they stay in touch with their friends. The filters make it fun, they can see where their friends are on Snapmaps, and the instant photos give them a...

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July 13, 2023

48: Teen/tween girl drama could be avoided if they’re taught how to become allies: an interview with Kim McCabe.

We've all heard about mean girls, and girl drama, but is it inevitable, or are there things we can be doing to prevent it? Kim McCabe is an expert on teen and tween girl development who runs a programme called Rites for Girl...

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July 10, 2023

Bigorexia: Teens eating everything in the house, muscle building, and Bigorexia.

47: Boys and men who display a muscular physique that's 'ripped', or 'cut' get more likes and shares than other accounts on social media, so the algorithms behind the platforms are feeding a strong trend in muscle building a...

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July 3, 2023

Anger issues: tips for dealing with an explosive and angry teen.

46: We all loose our cool sometimes. but teenagers can find it particularly challenging to stay calm or calm down when enraged. It takes self-awareness and skill, and a level of brain development that just isn't there for som...

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June 26, 2023

Masculinity, and positive ways of supporting our teenage boys: An interview with Mike Nicholson from Progressive Masculinity

45: The term toxic masculinity has been gaining traction, and is often used to talk about the type of masculinity where men use dominance, violence and control to gain power and superiority over others. There's also been an ...

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June 19, 2023

New relationships: Introducing your new partner to your teen.

44: What's better than falling in love again, particularly after a divorce or breakdown of a previous relationship? If you've managed to find someone special in the messy tangle of life as a parent it can feel like a miracle,...

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June 12, 2023

Risk-taking teens; the good news about bad behaviour.

43: We all know that teenagers need their friends, and spending time with others protects against anxiety and all sorts of other mental health problems. At the same time, groups of teens are far more likely to take risks and ...

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June 7, 2023

Teenagers Untangled: Who we are and how you can use the podcast.

Support the show Thanks for listening. Neither of us has medical training so please seek the advice of a specialist if you're not coping. Please hit the follow button if you like our podcast, and share it with anyone who migh...

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June 5, 2023

42: Social media, and how to help your teens be their best selves online, with Natasha Devon MBE

An interview with Natasha Devon MBE: We parents often struggle with our fears about how to protect our teens when they're online. So when I received Natasha’s book written for teenagers, 'Clicks; How to be Your Best Self Onli...

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June 1, 2023

Sleep; the free fix for our teens with no side effects.

41: Everything seems better when we've had enough sleep; our mood is more stable, our response times are faster, we can control our impulses more easily, and perform tasks more effectively. For teenagers, who are growing rap...

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May 10, 2023

Conflict resolution skills can deepen your relationship with your teen; here's how.

40: Conflict is normal - but it often escalates during teenage years because our kids are trying to assert their own wishes, and probably aren't very skilled at it. As parents, it's easy to fall into classic conflict traps if...

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April 28, 2023

Exam revision - Parenting through the pressure.

39: It's pre-exam time of year again, and oh boy it's tough for our teens. Does yours have a colour-coded revision schedule, carefully-timed breaks, and a confident spring in their step? Maybe they don't seem to be doing enou...

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