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Episodes

Dec. 20, 2023

69: Christmas and the holiday season. A time of family festivities or fights?

Send us a text We all have traditional times when our extended families come together to celebrate, give thanks, and share the warmth of mutual love. In the UK, December is a non-stop reel of songs about 'Simply having a wond...

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Dec. 12, 2023

68: Parenting teenagers two years on: Online, education, anxiety, consequences, and the pressures of parenting. What we've learned from the podcast.

Send us a text It's our two year anniversary, and what a ride it's been! Since we're taking a break to spend time with our families, we thought it would be the perfect time to reflect on what we think are the best things we'v...

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Dec. 5, 2023

67: Online grooming and sextortion: protecting our teens and tweens.

Send us a text The pandemic saw thousands of children moving online to learn, socialise, and play. Unfortunately, internet predators have followed them there, using highly sophisticated tactics to reach children and coerce th...

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Nov. 29, 2023

66: Eating disorders: An interview with Beat representative Umairah Malik. What we parents need to know, including warning signs, where to go for help, and practical things we can do or say that might make a difference.

Send us a text One in eight UK teenagers now suffers from an eating disorder, according to the latest figures from the UK's National Health Service. That's a shocking fifteen-fold increase since before Covid. These disorders ...

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Nov. 21, 2023

65: Parenting styles that enable teens to grow into capable adults.

Send us a text We all want the best for our kids, but there's a tricky balancing act between giving them the freedom to make the mistakes that build resiliency, and stepping in to protect and guide them. There's been a modern...

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Nov. 14, 2023

64: Pornography: How to talk to teens about pornography. An interview with Dr Mandy Sanchez of Culture Reframed.

Send us a text Has your kid seen porn? Research says 1 in 3 kids have seen explicit, hardcore porn by the age of 12, many by accident. Whether or not your tween or teen has seen it the fact that hardcore porn is widely availa...

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Nov. 7, 2023

63: Charging rent: should you charge your teens and young adults rent and, if you do, what's the best way to go about it?

Send us a text In an era where house prices have gone up, wages have stagnated, and young people are staying in the family home for longer, how do we manage the transition to adulthood whilst our young are still living at hom...

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Oct. 31, 2023

62: Exercise: are teens doing enough, and what can we do to encourage them?

Send us a text Nobody would argue against the benefits of exercise, but there are lots of school kids who dread physical education lessons, and dodge exercise whenever it's raised. When Nicola contacted us asking for advice o...

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Oct. 24, 2023

61: ‘Trans’ and gender confusion: what to say to teens when we’re often more confused than they are. An interview with expert psychotherapist Stella O'Malley.

Send us a text The words non-binary, queer, trans, are regularly used in social media and the news nowadays. Many teens are far more educated on their significance than us parents; in fact many of us would be completely unpre...

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Oct. 17, 2023

60: Triggers and emotional spirals, also mobile phone bans and do schools know what to teach kids anymore?

Send us a text In most episodes Rachel uses her journalistic background to trawl through studies and find out what a range of experts think about a topic. Susie brings her wealth of knowledge and experience of mindfulness and...

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Oct. 10, 2023

59: Divorce: Marriage problems; how to talk to a teenager about what’s happening.

Send us a text Deciding to split can be an incredibly challenging time for any married couple, but knowing the impact it can have on our kids can make it even harder to navigate the complex untangling of a life together. We w...

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Oct. 3, 2023

58: Teen dating. Talking about relationships or 'help, my son's come home with a hickey!'

Send us a text Stacy messaged to tell us that her son had come home with a hickey for a second time, and she wasn't sure whether her reaction was the right one. My goodness, parenting can be hard. Remember when you had your v...

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Sept. 26, 2023

57: Emotional intelligence and how we can help ourselves, and our teens to develop it.

Send us a text Everybody knows intelligence is important, but until the 90's we relied on the testing of IQ to measure it. The problem was that IQ didn't really predict success. When the term emotional intelligence began bein...

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Sept. 19, 2023

56: Gap years: What is a gap year and should our teens take one?

Send us a text I'd never heard of a Gap Year until I took one, but it was life-changing; in a good way. Whether your teen is starting out at senior school, or about to hit a transition year, it's worth talking with them about...

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Sept. 12, 2023

55: Cancer and death: Supporting our kids through the worst

Send us a text Parenting tweens and teens is challenging enough, but when someone in the family becomes seriously ill or dies, it can feel overwhelmingly difficult. In all honesty, we Westerners are terrible at talking about ...

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Aug. 29, 2023

54: Anxiety: How to help your teen with anxiety, an interview with Renee Mill, Senior Clinical Psychologist.

Send us a text For most of our episodes I research a topic and discuss it with Susie. We covered anxiety some time ago in that format, and it's continued to be one of our most popular downloads. So, when I was given the oppor...

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Aug. 22, 2023

53: Christmas and holiday stress with teenagers and tweens.

Send us a text A holiday is when someone is free to do what they want, such as travel or relax. That's according to the Cambridge Dictionary. The problem with teenagers, is that what they want to do for several weeks over sum...

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Aug. 15, 2023

52: Transitioning to secondary school: What we wish we'd known about preparing our tweens & teens, and ourselves.

Send us a text The transition from junior to senior school can be thrilling; the chance to meet a much bigger group of kids, and gain more of the independence that's part of growing up. But change is always stressful, and whe...

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Aug. 9, 2023

51: Memory helps us do far more than pass exams. So why not train it in the same way we work our muscles in the gym?

Send us a text In this interview with Danielle Winton of Memory Strategy we talked about: * Why we should care about memory stategies. * Key things parents can do to support their teens. * How to link a number to music. * Eve...

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July 23, 2023

50: Snapchat addiction; the app that's a fantastic way to connect, or a cynical exploitation of your teenager's time?

Send us a text Snapchat has become a must-have for most teens, because it's now the way they stay in touch with their friends. The filters make it fun, they can see where their friends are on Snapmaps, and the instant photos ...

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July 13, 2023

49: Teen/tween girl drama could be avoided if they’re taught how to become allies: an interview with Kim McCabe.

Send us a text We've all heard about mean girls, and girl drama, but is it inevitable, or are there things we can be doing to prevent it? Kim McCabe is an expert on teen and tween girl development who runs a programme called...

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July 9, 2023

48: Bigorexia: Teens eating everything in the house, muscle building, and Bigorexia.

Send us a text Boys and men who display a muscular physique that's 'ripped', or 'cut' get more likes and shares than other accounts on social media, so the algorithms behind the platforms are feeding a strong trend in muscle...

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July 2, 2023

47: Anger issues: tips for dealing with an explosive and angry teen.

Send us a text We all loose our cool sometimes. but teenagers can find it particularly challenging to stay calm or calm down when enraged. It takes self-awareness and skill, and a level of brain development that just isn't th...

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June 25, 2023

46:Masculinity, and positive ways of supporting our teenage boys: An interview with Mike Nicholson from Progressive Masculinity

Send us a text The term toxic masculinity has been gaining traction, and is often used to talk about the type of masculinity where men use dominance, violence and control to gain power and superiority over others. There's al...

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