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Episodes

April 29, 2025

TU: Respect, artifical intelligence and toxic femininity - the teenage view

What do you think of this episode? Do you have any topics you'd like me to cover? When I asked listeners for their questions one stood out as a worthy of almost an entire episode: 'What does it take to respect people around y...

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April 22, 2025

139: Preparing for secondary school, friendship groups, and those awkward talks about porn and sexting

What do you think of this episode? Do you have any topics you'd like me to cover? In this episode my teens, Phoebe and Amelia, joined me in the studio to help answer some questions emailed in by listeners, and sent to me on s...

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April 15, 2025

138: How to get your teenager out of their bedroom - even one who's into gaming.

Send us a text So many parents feel a deep loss when their teenager begins to separate from them; staying in their room and behaving as if the person they used to adore is the most embarassing thing they have ever witnessed. ...

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April 8, 2025

137: Identity formation - the main job of a teenager?

Send us a text In psychology, the term "identity" is most commonly used to describe the distinctive qualities or traits that make an individual unique. Identities are strongly associated with self-esteem, and individuality an...

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April 1, 2025

136: Society has changed: Are education and hard work less important now than parents?

What do you think of this episode? Do you have any topics you'd like me to cover? I grew up believing in a meritocracy; with hard work - and government funding of my university education - I eventually escaped a difficult hom...

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March 25, 2025

135: Adolescence: Help for parents with the core themes. How to discuss and connect with our kids

Send us a text The mini-series, Adolescence, is a global hit, topping Netflix charts in 71 countries and amassing 24.3 million views in its first four days. It's sparked a global conversation about parenting, masculinity, and...

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March 18, 2025

134: Are we too cynical? Helping our kids see hope in a world of cynicism.

Send us a text Twenty years ago The Times asked young people in Britain a series of questions. The new Millenials gave answers which showed that the majority thought the UK was forward-looking and tolerant; they were proud to...

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March 10, 2025

133: How to plan ahead for an empty nest that's full of possibility

Send us a text Empty nest syndrome is real, and can be very painful to navigate. I've already discussed it with Susie, including ideas for how we can manage our feelings in a positive way to help us move on. https://www.teena...

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March 4, 2025

132: Work: What we parents can do to help our kids end up with a meaningful role in society.

Send us a text Another day another newspaper headline that says young people aren't working. According to the Financial Times newspaper, 13.4 per cent of people in the United Kingdon in the 16 to 24 age group were not in empl...

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Feb. 25, 2025

131: Culture clash: When the ‘black sheep’ of the family forces us to learn

Send us a text Parenting is a hard enough, but doing it in a culture that is different from the one we grew up in creates an extra layer of challenges to navigate. When it's our kids who have the greatest connection to that n...

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Feb. 18, 2025

130: Worries about skin care obsessions? The social media 'Sephora' kid craze from a teen perspective

Send us a text Most teens go through a phase of being hyper-focused on looking good; whether it's clothes, bodybuilding, skin-care or makeup. What can seem like an obsession could be a normal part of the process, so when shou...

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Feb. 11, 2025

129: Parenting stages: Coaching and mentoring teens and young adults

Send us a text Before I had kids I literally had no real idea of what I should expect. I think that's partly why I have spent the years as a mother panicking and reading everything; having learnt that I was wrong about how co...

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Feb. 4, 2025

128: Supercharge your teen's life skills with a working holiday.

Send us a text Sponsored by JENZA Positively life changing is how I would sum up the time I spent working abroad during my gap year. I met people with a completely different world view, different language, and learnt to navig...

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Jan. 28, 2025

127: How to be a good parent to teenagers, using evidence. An interview with Matilda Gosling

Send us a text It's one thing to get advice on how to parent, it's another to have independent studies that give real evidence on how well one approach works rather than another. Faced with raising two young kids in a COVID l...

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Jan. 24, 2025

Community catch up: Relaxing, skin care obsessions, leaving school and finding work and boredom.

Send us a text This is Community Catch-Up: Your bonus episode BOOKS MENTIONED: Of Boys and Men by Richard Reeves 10-25: The Science of Motivating Younge People - David Yeager https://www.teenagersuntangled.com/motivation-how-...

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Jan. 21, 2025

126: Reduce parenting stress and improve our kids' core skills with this simple fix. An interview with Sam Kelly

Send us a text Stress can be a major problem for parents who're constantly juggling tasks and responsibilities. The mental load can feel overwhelming at times and the list literally never ending. So when I discovered Sam Kell...

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Jan. 14, 2025

125: How to motivate our teens to love learning and why parents are the missing piece of the puzzle.

Send us a text We parents are deluding ourselves about how much our kids enjoy school, according to research for the book The Disengaged Teen. In survey responses 65% of parents thought their 10th grade kid loved school, whil...

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Jan. 7, 2025

124: Enduring sibling relationships: Why some last and others fall apart, and how we parents can help

Send us a text There are siblings who love spending time with each other as often as possible, some tolerate it once or twice a year, and there are others who would rather eat glass than have to speak to each other. Why? What...

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Dec. 31, 2024

123: New Year 2025: resolutions, stress, being more fun, most interesting books, and most downloaded.

Send us a text MAKING RESOLUTIONS: https://www.teenagersuntangled.com/70-new-years-resolutions-love-them-or-loathe-them-the-question-is-how-can-we-make-them-work-for-u/ https://www.teenagersuntangled.com/blog/Be-the-person-yo...

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Dec. 23, 2024

122: Family gatherings without the fireworks, and staying connected with your young teen

Send us a text Connection is at the root of human happiness, but staying connected through the turbulent teens and keeping family traditions and gatherings positive can be a challenge. In this episode we help Helen with her q...

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Dec. 17, 2024

121: Suicide: How to talk about it with teens, and offer proper support.

Send us a text In a recent column in The Times, Caitlin Moran wrote about how five young men in her social circle have taken their lives in the past 18 months. She's not alone. My daughter has experienced this, as has Benedic...

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Dec. 10, 2024

120: Support: It takes a village to raise a child... as long they do it my way.

Send us a text So many of us bemoan the loss of a village, but do we really know what we mean by that? Being in a village or community requires us to give as well as take; often not on our own terms. It also means that we hav...

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Dec. 3, 2024

119: Girls: Talking with teens about beauty standards, entitlement and misogyny an interview with Jo-Ann Finkelstein

Send us a text Encouraging our kids to make the most of themselves is a vital job for parents, but how do we talk with girls about the barriers they face? From the subtle expectation that girls and women be humble to the not ...

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Nov. 26, 2024

118: Cancel culture. Bullying or bravery?

Send us a text The suicide of a young man at Oxford University has prompted a warning letter to the UK Government about 'cancel culture' on campus. The review into his death 'identified evidence of a concerning practice of so...

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