When we take control of our kids lives and schedules it can seem like we’re doing our best for someone we love deeply.
The problem is that we suppress their internal drive and the need to think about what really matters to them; otherwise known as their Explorer Mode.
The way schools are set up now means our kids have few opportunities for real agency over their lives, so it’s an area in which we parents can make a real difference.
I’ve realised that it’s really important to be explicit with our kids about their need to figure out for themselves what they want so they don’t feel like passengers in their own lives.
For some, it’s never an issue, but the rising numbers of disengaged teens shows that sometimes the kindest thing to do is work less and let them do more.
The benefit to you as a parent is less stress. I know! You are so welcome. 🌟
For all the details on the Explorer Mindset you can listen to my interview with @drrebeccawinthrop who co-wrote The Disengaged Teen with @jennyandersonwrites
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