June 17, 2025

147: Puberty, toxic friendships, 'Pick me' girls - top tips for Parenting teenagers from teenagers

147: Puberty, toxic friendships,  'Pick me' girls - top tips for Parenting teenagers from teenagers
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147: Puberty, toxic friendships,  'Pick me' girls - top tips for Parenting teenagers from teenagers

What do you think of this episode? Do you have any topics you'd like me to cover? It's a rare luxury to have both my girls available for half an hour to record an episode, and when I do I love to talk about listeners questions. Poor Amelia had a really bad cold, but she was still keen to help, so sorry about the sniffles. This time we talked about: Puberty and Body Changes Helping girls navigate early stages of pubertyDiscussing body changes with daughtersApproaches to talking about wearing f...

What do you think of this episode? Do you have any topics you'd like me to cover?

It's a rare luxury to have both my girls available for half an hour to record an episode, and when I do I love to talk about listeners questions. Poor Amelia had a really bad cold, but she was still keen to help, so sorry about the sniffles.

This time we talked about:

Puberty and Body Changes

  • Helping girls navigate early stages of puberty
  • Discussing body changes with daughters
  • Approaches to talking about wearing first bras

Toxic Friendships

  • Defining what makes a friendship toxic
  • Recognizing unhealthy friendship dynamics
  • Setting boundaries and knowing when to end a friendship
  • Importance of self-worth in friendship.

"Pick Me" Girls

  • Origin and meaning of the term
  • Different interpretations of "pick me" behavior
  • Internalized misogyny
  • How the term is used to criticize or police women's behavior

Gender Dynamics

  • Male gaze and body shaming
  • Societal expectations for girls and boys
  • Pressures to conform to certain behaviors
  • Importance of being authentic

If you have any other questions for my girls don't feel shy about messaging us. 

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01:17 - Navigating Early Puberty

05:09 - Bra Wearing and Body Awareness

10:28 - Male Gaze and Gender Dynamics

14:15 - Toxic Friendships

20:25 - Understanding "Pick Me" Girls