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Feb. 21, 2024

77: Talking to your kids about your past: sex and drugs and rock and roll.

We've all got a past, but telling our kids about what happened in it is a tricky subject. Whether it's all about the fun - sex and drugs and rock and roll - or things that caused deep trauma, there's a good chance that our te...

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Jan. 31, 2024

74: Does my teen need to lose weight? How to navigate diet culture with Elyse Resch

Diets, and an obsession with weight, are so much a part of Western culture that it's hardly surprising our teens can struggle to understand how to eat well. When I researched the topic for episode 9, I discovered that many ex...

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Nov. 29, 2023

65: Eating disorders: An interview with Beat representative Umairah Malik. What we parents need to know, including warning signs, where to go for help, and practical things we can do or say that might make a difference.

One in eight UK teenagers now suffers from an eating disorder, according to the latest figures from the UK's National Health Service. That's a shocking fifteen-fold increase since before Covid. These disorders are notoriousl...

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Nov. 15, 2023

63: How to: Talk to teens about pornography. An interview with Dr Mandy Sanchez of Culture Reframed.

Has your kid seen porn? Research says 1 in 3 kids have seen explicit, hardcore porn by the age of 12, many by accident. Whether or not your tween or teen has seen it the fact that hardcore porn is widely available, free, and ...

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Nov. 1, 2023

61: Exercise: are teens doing enough, and what can we do to encourage them?

Nobody would argue against the benefits of exercise, but there are lots of school kids who dread physical education lessons, and dodge exercise whenever it's raised. When Nicola contacted us asking for advice on how to get he...

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Sept. 13, 2023

54: Talking about cancer and death: Most of us are terrible at talking about it, so how can we support our teens?

Parenting tweens and teens is challenging enough, but when someone in the family becomes seriously ill or dies, it can feel overwhelmingly difficult. In all honesty, we Westerners are terrible at talking about death, often av...

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Aug. 30, 2023

53: Anxiety: How to help your teen with anxiety, an interview with Renee Mill, Senior Clinical Psychologist.

For most of our episodes I research a topic and discuss it with Susie. We covered anxiety some time ago in that format, and it's continued to be one of our most popular downloads. So, when I was given the opportunity to inter...

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July 10, 2023

47: Teens eating everything in the house, muscle building, and Bigorexia.

Boys and men who display a muscular physique that's 'ripped', or 'cut' get more likes and shares than other accounts on social media, so the algorithms behind the platforms are feeding a strong trend in muscle building among...

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April 18, 2023

38: Early relationships and sex: the issues and rules to talk through with your teen.

Most first world countries agree that the age of consent is around sixteen, but teenagers don't suddenly awake to their sexuality on their sixteenth birthday. Sexual feelings and interest can start much younger, well before t...

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Feb. 23, 2023

35: Vaping teens: How to educate and discourage your teenagers

Nicotine is considered highly addictive, and sales of vapes to teens are illegal, but the numbers of teens vaping nicotine in countries around the world are causing great concern. In America, the FDA called it an epidemic and...

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Oct. 14, 2022

24: Identity crisis? Why identity is such an issue for teenagers. Also, stinky teens and what we can do about it.

We've all heard about the phenomenon of a midlife crisis, but it's the teenage years when we first really become aware of our identity. For some, the sense of who we are beneath the roles we play is never a big issue. For oth...

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May 20, 2022

14: Anxiety in teenagers - also rules, and how to set ones your teens will follow.

The anxiety epidemic: In 2020 the UK charity Mental Health Foundation surveyed more than 2,000 children and found 50 per cent of teenagers aged 13-19 were experiencing anxiety they found hard to control. Suggested books: · ...

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May 9, 2022

13: Pornography: Why talking to your teen about it is more important now than it's ever been, and great ways to spend time with your teen.

WARNING: EXPLICIT CONTENT. Pornography is probably as old as art itself. Whether you indulge, or wouldn't go near it, there has never been a time when it is more graphic, or readily available to children and teens, with the ...

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Feb. 24, 2022

8: Sibling rivalry and how to deal with it as a parent. Also, the vaping teenager who's doing well at school but causing problems at home.

Is conflict never-ending in your home, or are your teenagers benefitting from having a sibling? We talk about our own experiences - memories of driving our own siblings up the wall - and the research we've read that will help...

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Feb. 13, 2022

7: Isolation. Did Covid really have that much of an impact on our teens, and the teenage sleep conundrum.

Covid has given everyone a real bashing. For teenagers, one upside is that we now talk more about mental health, but at the same time our teens have been stuck in their rooms on digital devices. The number using social media ...

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