1: Find any common ground.
2: Explore the underlying reasons why you disagree.
3: Start small, by agreeing on non-negotiables for your teens.
4: Think long term about what kind of person you both want your teen to become.
5: Select a signal to use when you don’t agree so that you can discuss it away from your teen.
6: Avoid playing good cop, bad cop.
7: Agree to consistently working to find ways to agree with, not win against your partner.